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Our Dog Flirt has Died

2012 – Flirt at 8 weeks

Jan and I knew this day would come. This is our 4th Golden retriever . . . Wrigley was our first, Jack our second, and Ellie our third. All four died from cancer – the golden curse.

Over the last couple of years we could see Flirt age . . . she couldn’t jump up on our bed anymore, long walks became difficult, and so on.

However, her death was so sudden. The morning we couldn’t get Flirt to get up to eat. A bad sign as she loved food. Since none of local vets would see her, we ended up going to the Southern Oregon Veterinary Specialty Center, a 24-hour emergency center, in Medford, Oregon. They were great, professional and very sensitive.

Flirt could no longer walk, so the vets lifted her into the center. After an ultrasound scan, the doctor gave us her diagnosis – Flirt had a large mass in her abdomen near her spleen and fluid in her lungs. All of it probably cancerous. Because of her age, treatment was not an option.

So we’re cutting short our summer trip and heading home in a few days.

We’d like to share a number of movies and photos of Flirt over the years . . .

2012

After our dog Jack died, we decided to get another Golden Retriever. We visited a golden breeder in Wisconsin in June 2012 to put our name in for an upcoming golden litter.

In the following video, Flirt’s father is the last dog on the clip, a 10-year-old male, who melts in Jan’s hands . . . just like Flirt did.

2012 – Flirt’s father is the last dog on this clip
2012 – Flirt and Ellie playing (Jan is worrying in the background)

2014

After getting Flirt in late 2012, we adapted another 7-year-old golden, Ellie, a short time later.

The following video was taken on the porch of our park model in Lake Havasu, AZ of the two girls playing:

2014 – Flirt & Ellie in Lake Havasu, AZ

2016

When we lived at the Crazy Horse Campground in Lake Havasu, AZ, Flirt met two dogs who she played with from time to time . . .

2016 – Flirt and Katie

2016 – Flirt and Ollie

2016 – Flirt loved fetching
2016 – South Lake (elevation 9,000′) outside Bishop, CA

2017

During our summer 2017 trip, we stayed at a seaside campground in Port Aransas, TX. From there, we could Jeep along the miles long Padre Island and play in the Gulf.

This was Flirt’s first time off leash in the water. We’ve never seen her happier. Her tail wagged continuously. Flirt was so excited that soon after running into the water, she took a poop in the waves.

2017 – One happy golden

Flirt loved air conditioning . . .

2017 – Lake Havasu park model

2017 – Lake Havasu park model

2018

2018 – Flirt watching “Isle of Dogs” on TV

2019

Flirt loved the porch on our Lake Havasu park model. From it she could look down on the park and watch . . . everything.

2019 – The porch of our Lake Havasu park model

2019 – Flirt loved everyone

2019 – Flirt loved taking off-leash walks on the old airport runway near Crazy Horse Campground

2019 – The consummate beggar during an off-road Jeep trip
2019 – Swimming in the Virgin River in Zion National Park’s Watchman Campground

2021

2021 – Watching TV in Mariposa, CA

2022

2022 – Sleeping in Mariposa

2022 – Taking a walk in Barrett Cove Campground
2022 – Flirt walking me

2023

2023 – Barrett Cove again
2023 – and again

2024

2024 – after a hard day swimming in the Rogue River at Lucky Lodge Campground, OR

2025

2025 – Flirt’s last swim in the Rogue River, a few days before her death

THIS IS HOW WE WANT TO REMEMBER FLIRT

7 Comments Post a comment
  1. Sister Mary's avatar
    Sister Mary #

    Ohhh.. So Sorry for your loss. What a sweet, happy dog. She sure had a great life with you.

    Love, Mary

    July 22, 2025
  2. T. Keyes's avatar
    T. Keyes #

    Oh sorry, it was a wrenching moment for me when the vet said “I’ll give you a moment alone”. I carried Dandy up and down the stairs to the backyard and was consoled a bit when the doctor told me about cancer. It came time to end the greatest dog in the world. I’ve not bonded so intensely with an animal again. Since then there’ve been other dogs, finches, cockatiels. Now our pets all live outside. They come to our feeders, graze through the gardens, birth litters under the shed. No vet bills, no tears. It’s hard enough to loose the people I love. I can relate to your sadness.

    July 22, 2025
    • Jan's avatar
      Jan #

      Hugs T Keyes
      Yes, this was hard. She was clearly Tom’s dog, although she loved us both.
      Haiku

      Flirt lies on the floor
      Her eyes and breathing at ease
      Not her usual pose

      3/10/2014

      Flirt has won my heart
      She knows to sit close by
      A glance, wag, a sigh

      7/13/2014

      Flirt with collar on
      Is eager to run at last
      Night’s relief is nigh

      Good girl at ready
      Five steps to sniffing heaven
      Tail wag nose aground

      Boundless joy in sight
      She quivers and bounds free
      For one more release

      Such liveliness seen
      So little to please ease her
      All life in such joy

      July 22, 2025
      • superblylegendary14d8b95722's avatar
        superblylegendary14d8b95722 #

        So truly sad, and feeling your loss at this time. When we lost our last golden it took me two years to even consider getting the girl we have now. Wish we had not waited so long. Memories never die, nor do they, as long as we keep them in our heart!

        July 22, 2025
  3. Jim's avatar
    Jim #

    Flirt was a sweetheart. Sent from my iPhone

    July 22, 2025
  4. gene soares's avatar
    gene soares #

    Wow I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s so hard to lose our pets…

    July 22, 2025
  5. James W Kasper's avatar
    James W Kasper #

    Sorry for your loss of Flirt. He was a really sweet dog.

    August 1, 2025

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